Sex Games To Spice Things Up In the Bedroom

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A healthy, happy sex life requires many things: Communication, vulnerability, trust and honesty. But what if you already have this solid foundation of intimacy, and still want to take things a step further? After all, that extra element of spice, excitement and naughtiness never hurt anyone! If that’s what you’re looking for, look no further! […]

Commitment-phobia Leads to Heartbreak: Here are the Warning Signs

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Boy meets girl, sparks fly, girl falls in love and then boy… has deep rooted commitment issues. He loves the chase, the sex, the romance, but not the everyday nitty gritties of a relationship. Girl craves for something more stable and is left heartbroken. Before we get started, I’d like you to know that this […]

How Often Should You Have Sex?

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Men often ask me, how much sex should we be having? Can there be a number answer to it? Like thrice a week, once a week, and so on.. Sex works for different people in a different way. It’s the classic chicken and egg dilemma. What comes first – happiness or frequent sex. For some […]

The Single Most Effective Sex Tip I Have EVER Given

Intimate Touch

Do you know the single-most effective sex tip that I’ve ever given? Touch more Most of us consider touch to be a part of foreplay that leads to sex, but I am talking about touch just for the sake of touching. Yes, this kind of touch has the power to transform your sex life like […]

If You Get A “No”, Try Initiating Sex In This Way

It was once in that months-long togetherness that I dared to ask him “I want to have sex with you.” The rest days, I would sigh mutely seeing his chiseled abode as he stepped out of the bathroom, or when he is deeply immersed at his work, I would look at his stout chest and […]

The Joy of Complaining

I have grown up to believe that happy couples do not fight, do not complain, and most of my life in almost all of my relationships, I have borne the brunt of this misconception. In my marriage, when differences accrued I thought its over, other than that it had become stale. Until recently, I carried […]

Six Main Sex Drive Myths That Can Destroy Your Sex Life

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Sex is a rarely discussed subject in the public domain and that leads to spreading a lot of misinformation out there, which leads to unrealistic expectations and disappointment. Despite being a sex educator, I had myself been living a sex-related myth that had a mighty toll on my relationship and hence it becomes important to […]

Recognize Bids of Your Partner

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Bids are the attempts a person make to connect with their partner. Bids are the fundamental unit of emotional communication. Bids can be small or big, some bids are easy to see and interpret, others are nearly indecipherable. It’s up to you, you can choose to turn towards – respond – your partner or turn […]

Understanding Your Partner’s Low Sex Drive

Sexual Arousal

As a woman indoctrinated in the Indian culture, for a long time I believed that a woman should not initiate sex. It’s a man’s job. I believed that women should be pursued both inside and outside the bedroom. Women in my home observed purdah in front of their men and were always fully clothed. I […]

Building The Emotional Bank Account Of Your Relationship

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Got a message ‘Your account has been credited with xx Rs’ on salary days; days bank pays interest; or when someone pays you back an amount long due? How does it feel? It feels good right! Most of us work to earn and depend on our income to live our cherished dreams of having our […]