4 Tips for Solving Couple Conflicts

Couple Fights Management

How many times have we fought in our intimate relationships with our partner, spouse? Definitely more than a few times. Conflict in itself is not unhealthy, it gives us an opportunity to look at the areas of the relationship that needs the most attention. A conflict about one partner not helping in housework highlights the […]

Mindful Sex Practices

The fast-paced life has left most of us exhausted, stressed, and disconnected, and most of us attempt sex under these unfriendly conditions. Immediately after sex most couples rush for their smartphones and sex timing is cut short to quick foreplay and ejaculation. It is difficult for our monkey minds to stay present and shut off […]

Social Isolation Could be a Period of Great Growth or Great Struggle in Your Relationship

Social Distancing and Romance

The COVID-19 pandemic is keeping many couples stuck at home, which is a good thing: Social-distancing will help minimize its spread and contain the disease. But this sudden surge in social isolation means many couples are now suddenly spending an awful lot of time together—like, 24×7—and that can be stressful for even the most solid partnership. Because we […]

Intimacy in Times of Social Isolation

Couple Cuddling

Most of us have restricted our social movement outside our homes to curtail the widespread increase in incidences of covid-19. As a mother, spending a month away from my kid in Dharamshala, I could very feel the rising anxiety inside me. As human beings, we are hard-wired for connection. Interacting, connecting with other social beings […]

Myth Buster: Performance Pressure for men with penises.

Penis Size does not matter

(The author wishes to clarify that the article talks specifically about men with penises, not to be trans exclusionary, but since he identifies as cis male. He does not wish to appropriate experiences of men who do not have penises. ‘Men with penises’ includes cis, trans and intersex men of all sexualities whose sex life […]

“Stay hard, dammit!!” : Performance Pressure for men with penises.

performance anxiety for men

(The author wishes to clarify that the article talks specifically about men with penises, not to be trans exclusionary, but since he identifies as cis male. He does not wish to appropriate experiences of men who do not have penises. ‘Men with penises’ includes cis, trans and intersex men of all sexualities whose sex life […]

Sex and hygiene

Sexual Hygiene

Apart from the fact that most Indians are among the worst people in bed (both men and women) who just do not know how to have sex (not least because they know nothing about sex except what they learn in substandard porn, which is most porn), there is the additional problem of most Indians being […]

The Better Sex Series: Your Lifestyle Matters!

Better sex lifestyle

A series about how everything else matters when it comes to sex In a sex-phobic culture, sex is often thrown in the same category as other ‘vices’- smoking, drinking and staying out late. We all know the stereotype of a promiscuous woman with a cigarette in her hand, who indulges in alcohol a little too […]

Men don’t have to cry, but they hella can

Men cry too

(The author wishes to inform you that in this article, the words ‘man’ or ‘men’ stand for any person identifying and/or presenting as male. Consequently, the pronouns ‘he’ and ‘they’ have been interchangeably used in the article to refer to men.) “Men can cry. Even soldiers can cry. Because our pain reveals the best in […]

What Men Brag and Boast to Other Men

Greek god penis

Let us start off with an understanding that everybody likes to tell about themselves and accumulate praise in return. We all have done it and once in a while, it feels good to get some external validation no matter how much you and I pretend about not giving a damn. But there are some folks […]