Masturbation as Meditation

Masturbation Pleasure

The way sexual energy moves and the duration sexual pleasure lasts is largely dependent on how we have programmed our bodies through self-pleasuring, (masturbation) When a boy is growing up, he gets to learn about masturbation from porn or from his circle of same-age friends, not from a trusted adult, who tells him that it […]

Which Erogenous Zones Do You Know About?

Holding Wrist

Some of them may surprise you! In society’s sexual script, only a few body parts are given the spotlight. Because of this, we may not realise how abundantly the human body is teeming with erogenous zones, waiting to be explored, desired and loved. According to sex and relationship expert Jane Greer, an erogenous zone can […]

Games of Lovemaking

BDSM Kink Feather Fetish

Sex is definitely one of the most exciting aspects of any adult person’s life but often especially in long-term relationships most sex becomes just plain vanilla sex. The same routine that couples often follow like a physical training drill and get off. However sex doesn’t have to be boring ever, only if people choose to […]

When Should You Have Your First Sexual Experience?

Sex Education

Young people today are faced with a unique contradiction when it comes to sex and sexual experiences. On one hand, an older generation of parents, mentors and teachers largely believe that pre-marital sex is wrong, and that young people should not express their sexuality in any way at all. We all know that look of […]

Sex without intercourse

Girl masturbating on sofa

I was lucky to have experienced the joy and ecstasy of “outercourse” or non-penetrative sex in the first few years of my active sexual life itself. At that stage both me and my partner did not want a pregnancy and along with standard birth control always experimented in techniques that were non-penetrative but equally or […]

Bro, she’s more than her holes

The Cunt

Do you look at her vagina after sex? I surely do, not sure about you. It makes sense to do so because if I have spent so many days and weeks in talking and building trust with the person surrounding that vagina, the least I can do is to look at it once my penis […]

Complaint is a longing for connection

Depressed Indian Wife

When I change TV Serial channel to some other channel, my wife fights with me. When I look at attractive women in sexy dresses in opposite and nearby homes for a long time, that time wife scolds me. Kalai Selvam once shared his marriage travails with me. Complains in relationships is nothing new, every couple […]

Know your man’s body!

Armpit Hair is Sexy

If it is true that Indian men do not know much about Indian women’s bodies, it is equally the case that Indian women know close to nothing about men’s bodies. If most of the Indian men I have interviewed over three decades now do not know what a clitoris is or where it ought to […]

The awkward case of conversations around sexual health

A friend called me up recently, stricken with panic. She had been on a date with a guy she has been attracted to and ended up having unprotected sex with him. She didn’t have a condom and she couldn’t muster up the courage to ask the man if he had one. Her vagina had developed […]

Performance Anxiety : He Can Get Hard Again

Performance Anxiety

“First time I was having sex with my girlfriend, I got discharged early due to over excitement. Then I controlled my nerves for the second time and my second attempt went good. This made me realize that over excitement is the main culprit for premature ejaculation. – Ashwani Gupta (name not changed)” The conventional male […]