Defying the Norm – Young Men with Older Women

A warm thanks to the social activist Ms. Madhavi Kuckreja for sharing her picture with her partner Mr. Askari Naqvi. I have always been with younger men – from a year to seven years younger. My only older-man-dating-attempt asked me once why I preferred younger men. I hadn’t given it much thought until then. I […]

Know More Than Routine Sex

Couple Intimacy Massage

As I had discussed in my last article, in long term monogamous relationships, there is a tendency that boredom might set in, the spark might get lost somehow. And which is quite normal. Seduction might help in getting rid of it but there might be other ways too to rekindle that lost flame in a […]

The Ten Commandments of Casual sex and Hookups

Dating on Smartphone

Hookup culture in India remains mired in sickness and misconception. In the heterosexual world, I know hundreds of boys who want it and cannot get it. I know hundreds of girls who want it but are too scared to even admit it, let alone go out and get it. Trying to set them up for […]

The pleasures and perils of polyamory: Some questions answered

2017 Toronto Pride Parade

Polyamory – the practice of loving more than one person poly (many) amory (love) – has been a cultural practice in many cultures across history but as a modern urban phenomenon, it has been largely a US phenomenon, coming out of the sex-positive feminist movement in that country. Sex positivism is that part of the […]

BDSM Guide for Beginners

Pink Handcuffs

Ever since the 50 Shades of Grey series burst on the sensuality scene both as books and films, it raised interest about BDSM lifestyle in dinner conversations and conventional relationships. People started searching for sex toys and paraphernalia and one can presume that some started experimenting on their own in their sex life based on […]

Seduction is not a Sexual Invitation, it is a Depth Invitation

Seduction is not a Sexual Invitation

In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually, what you wish for doesn’t fall in your lap; it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to it. This […]

You Know Not What You Want

Toasting Wine Glasses in Candle Light Dinner

Have you ever had a relationship where you had no sex? Forget sex, there was no touch! It was just mentally stimulating and the two of you connected in ways you could never imagine. Have you had days with your partner where you lay side by side, bodies barely touching, talking nineteen to a dozen […]

Bring Intimate Touch in Sexless Marriage

A gentle touch

I had been in a sexless marriage and it feels unfulfilling deep inside. It started with an emotional disconnect and continued on the facade of motherhood liabilities. This dry spell continued for 5 long years and I coped by binge eating, piling up 10 kilos in the intervening period. It was an outside affair with […]

I Escaped Porn Addiction

Come out of Porn

It started out of curiosity. I was in that unstable teenage phase when hormones raged high. I had just finished my 9th standard exams and was enjoying my summer holidays. I used to hang out at my friend’s place after dinner. 3-4 of us used to sit in his backyard and play cards or other […]

The Tenderness That Makes Foreplay Amazing

Sex is Tenderness

I am at the mall, waiting for an old schoolmate of mine who I haven’t seen in over two decades. Interestingly, he and I never spoke in school. Unlike my present vocal self, I was shy and demure as a child. It was difficult for me to talk to my classmates, even the girls. Boys […]