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Premalaya

The Intimacy Abode

A 5 Day immersive, experiential couples retreat that will
deepen your love, intimacy, and connection.

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Deepen your intimate connection

You are already close. You have seen life’s highs and lows together. You’ve built something real.
But now something inside you is stirring.

  • You love each other, but passion and connection in the bedroom is missing
  • From lovers you have become roommates, best friends, flatmates
  • You are two busy professionals stuck in the daily grind of life, mourning lost intimacy
  • You are parents and wonder where your intimate life has gone after the arrival of kids
  • You are in a good relationship and ready to make it extraordinary
  • You are an empty nester, with grown-up kids, and want to rediscover each other
  • You are romantic adventurers seeking spiritual, sexual, and relationship growth

Join us for a transformational 5-day retreat in serene, spiritual greens of Auroville where we will guide you on a wonderful journey of discovery.

RECONNECT, REAWAKEN, REIGNITE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

This retreat will help you experience and sustain a relationship where passion, connection, and desire flow naturally for a lifetime – because you have become truly aware, skilled, and present.

Each session blends:
  • Science-based insights into love and intimacy
  • Ancient wisdom from Tantra and Taoist traditions
  • Somatic and psychobiological practices
  • Joy, insight, and playful connection

Let me take you from where you are to where you want to be

You want to connect with your partner soulfully, emotionally, and physically from a place of love and passion. You want to experience physical pleasure that nourishes both you and your partner. You want to become authentic and expand your “edge” to meet your partner in their desire and pain and likewise you wish for yourself. In this retreat, we will create an environment and bless you with powerful guidance and practices that all your tensions will simply fall away and you and your partner will be enveloped in an intimate, ecstatic experience you will never forget.

This retreat is for couples who are ready to evolve together: emotionally, erotically, and spiritually.

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What You’ll Experience at the Retreat

Over 5 luxurious days in the lush greens in Auroville, you’ll step out of routine and enter a space of conscious relating. You’ll experience intimacy as a living daily practice, one that draws from the deep ancient spiritual wisdom of Tantra, and modern psychotherapy, and neuroscience.

Guided by real life married couple and trusted intimacy experts: Pallavi Barnwal, and John Anand — you’ll be gently supported to:

Rediscover the pleasure of mind, body, soul, and heart
Reawaken erotic aliveness without pressure or performance
Communicate with each other with vulnerability, emotional connection, and mental clarity
 Deepen into a love that is grounded, sensual, and soul-nourishing

Set in the extraordinary ________, this retreat is as beautiful as it is transformative. With daily love lessons, luscious guided practices and space for rest and ritual, you’ll leave feeling reconnected, recharged and renewed in your relationship.

If your relationship is ready for growth and expansion…this is your invitation.

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What couples are saying

Your retreats are fundamental guidance modern couples need for a healthy, intimate, successful relationship. In this fast, stimulated, crazy world, your retreat reached to us like light in the dark night of our lives, uplifting and reuniting us in love, forever.
Prashant
We loved your retreat. I never thought learning about sex will be so graceful, kind, and respectful. I must say the space felt so safe, and sexy at the same time that we could not, not stop ourselves from melting into each other in a way, we have never done it in the past 15 years of our marriage.
Anonymus
We loved your retreat. I never thought learning about sex will be so graceful, kind, and respectful. I must say the space felt so safe, and sexy at the same time that we could not, not stop ourselves from melting into each other in a way, we have never done it in the past 15 years of our marriage.
Anonymus
We loved your retreat. I never thought learning about sex will be so graceful, kind, and respectful. I must say the space felt so safe, and sexy at the same time that we could not, not stop ourselves from melting into each other in a way, we have never done it in the past 15 years of our marriage.
Anonymus
We loved your retreat. I never thought learning about sex will be so graceful, kind, and respectful. I must say the space felt so safe, and sexy at the same time that we could not, not stop ourselves from melting into each other in a way, we have never done it in the past 15 years of our marriage.
Anonymus

Led by husband wife duo

Renowned Intimacy Expert Pallavi Barnwal and Tantra Teacher Anad Neer, who have dedicated years in researching and teaching the art of conscious, intimate loving. Their exclusive and exquisitely tailored program, inspired by the best tantric masters and legendary sex therapists in the world helps couple deepen their intimate connection.

Your Daily Schedule

Morning Love Lessons
Held in our private cashew farm, these sessions focus on embodied practices — breathwork, energy awareness, meditative touch and mindful presence. The methods are taken from ancient Tantric and Taoist traditions, inviting you to experience intimacy as a conscious, loving state of being.
Afternoon Love Lessons
In these talk-based sessions, we explore the psychology and science of relationships and intimacy — communication, attachment, polarity, boundaries and your unique relational rubric. It’s a time for insight, mental clarity and emotional intimacy.
Evening Love Lessons
These sessions are playful, sensual and soulful. You’ll be guided through partner practices designed to awaken desire, deepen intimate connection and soften into sensual pleasure — with respect, reverence and a sense of lightness. All physical intimacy happens privately in your room — it’s your “homework.”

Plus

  • A trip for a traditional couples’ blessing and sacred bathing
  • A fire ceremony for wedding vow renewal
  • One open evening to rest, reflect, or explore

More than just ‘fixing your sex life’, this couples retreat navigates not only the skills you need to go there, but also the confidence to stay there and be fully present in your erotic, sensual power!

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What You’ll Learn (and Takeaway)

This retreat is more than a set of tools and techniques; it’s a transformation inside out. A new way of being together. You’ll leave with knowledge and practices that awaken your erotic aliveness, deepen your emotional intimacy, spark your sexual connection, and make your relationship a more vibrant place to live and love.

Renowned Intimacy Expert Pallavi Barnwal and Tantra Teacher Anad Neer, who have dedicated years in researching and teaching the art of conscious, intimate loving. Their exclusive and exquisitely tailored program, inspired by the best tantric masters and legendary sex therapists in the world helps couple deepen their intimate connection.

Here’s a taste of what we’ll explore

Cultivating a Creative and Satisfying Approach to Sex
Whether you want to rekindle desire or already have steady sex life, this retreat helps you develop an approach to sex that’s endlessly creative and deeply satisfying. You’ll learn how to keep your sexual connection nourishing, alive, and evolving. This is the beginning — or continuation — of a love life that keeps getting better.

Merging Love and Sexual Energy

In our culture, love and sex are seen as 2 different things but they are interlinked. You will experience how to blend love energy and sexual energy so you can stay erotically connected and emotionally intimate throughout your day.

Strengthening Your Couple Bubble

You’ll explore the powerful concept of the Couple Bubble — the third entity in your relationship, after you and your partner. Learn how to nourish and protect your shared field of connection, so that you feel safe, seen, and supported as individuals and as a couple. When your Couple Bubble is strong, everything else flows more easily.

Tantric Wisdom for Modern Lovers

Explore how the ancient teachings of Tantra bring the quality of presence, awareness, and meditation to sex. Far from being esoteric, the Tantric approach is being conscious, embodied, present-moment love-making. By becoming aware of subtle sensations and energy, we begin to experience intimacy—not just with a partner, but with life itself.

Slow Sex

Inspired from Tantric Master Diana Richardson’s pioneering “Slow Sex” movement— this loving approach shifts focus from performance to presence, deepening the connection between the couple.

Please be assured that this Couples Retreat is completely classy and vulgarity-free.

There is no nudity or sexual interaction during the workshop sessions – all explorations are only for your private ‘homework’!

Retreat Details and Booking

When?
11-15 Feb 2026

The retreat begins at 2pm on Wed and concludes at 4pm on Sunday.

Investment?

INR 1.5 Lac per couple

Your place is secured with a 50% deposit. The balance is due six weeks prior.
 Payment plans are available — just ask!

Where?

Pondicherry

A world-class luxury, heritage villa Luxury Eco Villa Near Auroville Forest & Beach, with private pool, courtyard, cozy amphitheater, and forest-edge views, the villa blends modern design with sustainable living. Ideal for couples it offers spacious comfort, eco-friendly elegance, and easy access to Auroville cafés, art, and culture.

Who It’s For?

Couples of all ages and stages: from new lovers to decades-long partners.
 Whether you’re already deeply connected or facing a relationship rupture, this retreat will meet you where you are and help you move forward, together.

Same-sex couples are warmly welcomed.
 Limited to 10 couples for an intimate, personalised experience.

By understanding the true nature of sexual connection, couples can transform sex into a healing force, fostering deeper love and harmony between them.

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Transform your relationship
Ready to Join Us?

This isn’t just a retreat.
It’s a homecoming. A reawakening. A reset.
Come join us – and let your love evolve.

Please feel free to contact us with any questions.
Meet Couples from Past Retreats
All photos are shared with permission. They loved it and want to inspire you to attend too!

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FAQs

There is parking on site for those driving. The closest major airport is Chennai (3 hour).

Amour, Couple Intimacy Retreat begins at 6pm on Tue 12th May 2026 with a meditation followed by dinner. The retreat ends on the Sunday 17th May 2026 with lunch at 1pm.

No. There is no sexual activity or nudity in the group space. All intimate practices take place in the privacy of your own bedroom.

Sharing is completely optional. Space is available for couples who want to speak, but you are never required to. Should you choose to share, all participants have signed a confidentiality agreement. Couple Intimacy Retreat is not a group process – the focus is you as a couple.

We are available throughout the week for 1:1 support as needed, both individually and as a couple.

No. The gift of this retreat is the dedicated space to explore Conscious Intimacy, taking it from theory into practice. These retreat has been running for over 10 years and hundreds of couples have now benefited from this approach.

The Couple Intimacy Retreat is suitable for couples from age 18 to 80+, whether you’re newly together or decades into relationship. If you’re unsure, simply get in touch and we can arrange a conversation.

The retreat is for a maximum of 10 couples.

Pallavi and John (Anad Neer) are globally respected sexuality teachers, pioneers of the Conscious Sexual Intimacy and founders of the Amour, The couple intimacy Retreat. They have taught thousands of couples in last 10 years.

We’re here to help. Message us with any questions or, if you’d like to speak with us before booking, get in touch to arrange a conversation.