A healthy, happy sex life requires many things: communication, vulnerability, trust, and honesty. But what if you already have a solid foundation of intimacy and still want to take things a step further? After all, adding a bit of spice, excitement, and naughtiness never hurt anyone! If that’s what you’re looking for, you’re in the right place. Here are some fun sex games that can add that extra something to your sex life. And remember: before trying out any of these games, make sure to discuss them with your partner(s) and get their full, enthusiastic consent.
1. Shuffling Desires
This game is perfect for couples in the early stages of their relationship. Get in bed with your partner and write down your top five fantasies on slips of paper. Have your partner do the same. Without revealing them, fold the slips, toss them into a bowl, and pick them out one by one. When a slip is drawn, discuss the fantasy. It’s a comfortable way to learn more about each other’s desires, and who knows? You might be tempted to try out one of the fantasies!
2. Role Play
Do you fantasize about sexual situations involving authority figures or power dynamics? Maybe you’re intrigued by the sexual tension that comes with these scenarios. While it’s not advisable to engage in real-life power dynamics, role-playing is a safe way to explore these fantasies with your partner. Grab some costumes, get into character, and come up with fun plots that end with a sexy twist.
3. Would You Rather?
You might remember playing “Would You Rather?” as a kid, where you had to choose between two imaginary scenarios. Now, put a sexy spin on it! Present your partner with two sexual scenarios and ask which they would prefer. For those who enjoy dirty talk, this game is perfect. Whisper the questions into your partner’s ear, punctuating them with suggestive looks and touches. It’s sure to turn up the heat!
4. Truth or Dare?
Another sleepover classic, but this time for adults only. Use the “truths” to learn more about your partner’s desires, and start daring them to kiss, touch, or even try something you’ve been too shy to ask for!
5. Strip Games
Strip poker is probably the best-known sexy game, and for good reason. Combining sex with a beloved card game? Yes, please! But why stop at poker? You can get creative with other games. Try strip trivia—every wrong answer means removing a piece of clothing. Or how about a strip board game? Get competitive, have fun, and end up naked in no time.
6. Sexy Treasure Hunt
Have a free Sunday and feel creative? Arrange a mini “sex treasure hunt” around your house. Leave notes in different places with sexy requests, thoughts, or memories, leading to the next clue. The final note leads to the ultimate treasure—you! The build-up will make the final reveal all the more exciting.
7. Blindfolds and Something Sweet
Ice cream and sex? Yes, please! Blindfold your partner and feed them ice cream, taking turns. Let the ice cream drip, then lick it off. The lack of sight enhances the sense of taste and touch, making it an incredibly sensual experience.
8. A Sexy Outdoor Tease
Put on your sexiest underwear beneath your regular clothes and go for a walk with your partner. The thrill of having a sexy secret in public that only the two of you know can be incredibly exciting. The longer the walk, the more desperate you’ll be to get home and reveal your sexy secret.
9. Bucket List
No one wants to grow old with regrets, and that applies to your sex life too. Create a bucket list of unfulfilled desires. If your partner is willing, you can start crossing items off together. Common bucket list items include BDSM, tantra, threesomes, or any untried fantasies.
10. Never Have I Ever
Turn the classic drinking game into a sexy adventure. Play “Never Have I Ever” with all the sexual experiences you’ve yet to try. But instead of taking a shot, try out what you’ve been missing!
11. Find The Spot
Choose a spot on your body and don’t tell your partner. Their job is to kiss every part of your body until they find the spot. Once they do, think of a new spot, and the game begins again. By the end, you’ll have been kissed all over!
12. Distance Breeds Affection
Lay on your bed (maybe naked!) while your partner stands at the doorway. Ask your partner questions—general trivia, questions about yourself, or any question with right and wrong answers. For each correct answer, they take a step closer; for a wrong answer, they take a step back. To really tease them, make the questions challenging—they’ll be aching to get close!
13. Mime Artists
Face each other and take turns touching or kissing. The rule is that your partner must mimic whatever you do. Start slow, and gradually turn up the heat!
14. Mirror, Mirror
If you and your partner enjoy visual stimulation, why not involve a mirror? Find the biggest mirror in your house and get busy in front of it. You might fall in love with the sight of your bodies moving together.
15. And The Winner Is…?
Bring out your competitive side! Get undressed and engage in a pillow fight, playful wrestling, tickling, or even a friendly arm-wrestle. Whoever wins gets to initiate sex. The combination of physical competition and anticipation makes this a game where everyone wins!
16. Hide Me, Seek Me
Take a childhood favorite and give it a sexy twist! Put on some lingerie or get naked and hide somewhere in your house. Your partner has to seek you out, and when they do, things can get very dirty.
17. Guessing Game
How well does your partner know your body? Blindfold them and guide their hand to a part of your body. Then ask them to guess which part it is. It’s a great way to tease your partner while having their hands all over you.
18. Bring Out The Paints
Our bodies are canvases, and this game is a testament to that. Grab some skin-safe markers or paints and create art on each other’s bodies. It’s a creative way to show your appreciation for your partner.
19. And A Shot of Jealousy
While insecurity is harmful to relationships, a hint of jealousy can be fun. Describe a sexual encounter with a past partner in vivid detail, making your current partner want you even more. For couples in open relationships, discussing current sexual interactions with others can also spice things up.
20. Blindfold
Feeling risqué? Bring a blindfold into the equation! It heightens your other senses and adds an element of trust and intimacy to the experience.
21. Handcuffs
For those who enjoy a dominant-submissive dynamic, handcuffs can be incredibly sexy. Restrain your partner or have them restrain you. Since the restrained partner can’t move or touch, it’s perfect for teasing and building anticipation.
22. Intimate Voyeurs
This simple yet effective game involves sitting across from each other on the bed and pleasuring yourselves. The rule is to resist touching each other until you absolutely can’t stand it anymore. Watching your partner’s reactions while indulging in your own pleasure is uniquely irresistible.
23. Out in The Open
Outdoor sex is a common fantasy, but it’s not always feasible. Instead, drive to a quiet, secluded spot and make out, talk dirty, or touch each other. The risky, taboo nature of public intimacy can be incredibly exciting. Just be careful not to push beyond your comfort zone.
24. Let Me Feed You
Food and sex are a classic combination. Blindfold your partner and slowly feed them a delicious snack. Chocolates work perfectly, as you can also lick them off each other’s fingers—or bodies—as they melt. Small fruits like strawberries or grapes can also be very sensual. Let your partner taste your fingers once you’re done, and maybe even other parts of your body!
25. TV & Chill
Log off from your favorite streaming service and watch TV the old-fashioned way. Commercial breaks don’t have to be annoying—use that time to kiss, touch, or tease your partner. Build up the tension throughout the show, so that by the time it’s over, you won’t be able to keep your hands to yourself!
So there you have it—25 sex games to try with your partner! Sit down together and see which ones excite you both. Don’t be afraid to get creative, get sexy, and use these games to spice up your sex life. Let us know in the comments which ones you liked best, and feel free to share any new ideas for sex games!
