What is emotional cheating, and how do I know it’s happening to me?
When I was cheated on the first time, it was easy. Don’t get me wrong, I was devastated, furious, betrayed- maybe it helped somewhat that this wasn’t the most the serious relationship I’d ever been in, or would ever be in- but I got over it because I knew who to blame. Of course, our […]
So what’s the deal with virtual sex?
Is it any fun? Should you be doing it? Why, why not? DICLAIMER: Please be safe online, don’t engage in virtual sex unless you are 18+, and remember that consent is as important online as it is in person. Be safe and have fun! Virtual sex or Cyber sex has been around for as long […]
Why don’t we afford Indian mothers sexuality?
Women in India are expected to be wives and mothers, but do they ever really get the chance to express their womanhood beyond that? I remember back in fifth grade classrooms my girlfriends and I would traipse in, and every week we would whisper among ourselves about the latest development in our lives. One of […]
Let’s Talk About Sex
So, pornography. Yeah, bet you stopped and re-read that for a second. It’s one of those elephants in every online room, lurking around at least one late-night household screen, and of course the little flashes before every illegal streaming of Suits. Yet, even though I’m willing to bet no one reading this line hasn’t actually […]
Confronting the male female sexual double standard
When people ask me about my relationship history, I look back in time and find my first relationship beginning at the age of 23. Quite late, considering the teenage hormonal rush, we all go through that time of puberty where our bodies are changing and sex hormone levels rising. Crushes are a normal thing at […]
Complaint is a longing for connection
A client of mine once shared his marriage travails with me: When I change the TV Serial channel to some other channel, my wife fights with me. Having complaints about each other in a relationship is normal. The problem arises when you have the same complaint over and over again for your partner. A lingering […]
Building The Emotional Bank Account Of Your Relationship
Most of us work to live our cherished dreams of having our own house, buying our favoritefood, funding the studies of our kids, and other essentials of livelihood. Tracking our physicalneeds is a relatively easier task. But most of us are clueless when it comes to finding“fulfillment” in our intimate relationships. Yes, with that ‘one’ […]
Sex Games To Spice Things Up In the Bedroom
A healthy, happy sex life requires many things: communication, vulnerability, trust, and honesty. But what if you already have a solid foundation of intimacy and still want to take things a step further? After all, adding a bit of spice, excitement, and naughtiness never hurt anyone! If that’s what you’re looking for, you’re in the […]
3 Subtle Signs of Unhealthy Relationships
We all want love. We all long for love. Love is at the core of everything we do if we think about it. But despite being a universally practiced and felt emotion, love has not been talked about in the real sense. Barring the artificially curated social media posts and what we see on TV, […]