Sexless Marriage: How to Fix it

“Sex is not marriage, but sex is part of marriage.”  – Justice Kojo Betil Do you know 1 in 5 marriages is a sexless marriage? The role of sex in marriage is not discussed and understood, yet a good sexual relationship between a couple is vitally essential for relationship longevity and happiness. Lack of sex […]

How Mindfulness and Meditation Can Help You Achieve Deeper Intimacy

Mindfulness and meditation are usually thought of as solo activities, but what if we told you that there are techniques based on mindfulness and of meditation that you can do with your partner, which can even deepen emotional and sexual intimacy? Think of the benefits of mindfulness: feelings of peace, awareness and relaxation. Now think […]

Dispelling the Myth of Loose Vaginas

It sounds like a nightmare: you’re having great sex and then your partner says the dreaded words: ‘Umm… your vagina is kind of loose?’. If this has happened to you, here are two things to remember: one, this is a completely inaccurate statement. Two, you are not alone. As one of our readers who wrote […]

Living Apart Together: What Is It & Can It Work For You?

There comes a point in every live-in relationship or marriage, where you love each other, but the logistics of living together just gets HARD. Maybe one of you needs more alone time, or both of you have significantly different sleep timings and lifestyles… or you just hate having someone roll around on the bed next […]

A Bedroom Makeover: For Your Sex Life!

Is your bedroom a part of your house that makes you want to be intimate with your partner? Or does it bring you down and make you feel tired and exhausted: a place you would rather ignore?  Think of a cluttered, messy room with a suspicious odour and harsh lighting. Would you want in here? […]

A Healthy & Unhealthy Relationship- What is The Difference?

Instead of jumping into a marriage, a lot of people now choose to be in a relationship for a while before making any life decisions. But it is still  hard to talk openly about relationships. Most of us get our knowledge about love and relationships from books, movies or TV shows. Very often, these depictions […]

So You Want To Take Texting to The Next Level?

Anisha (name changed) lives in Nagpur, while her boyfriend has been living in Mumbai for the last few years. Apart from occasional visits, the two rarely get to see or touch each other in person. ‘It is difficult, we’ve been doing long-distance for four years. Sometimes I miss him a lot, I miss even simple […]

What We Teach Boys About Love & Sex

Kiran (name changed) grew up with a lot of curiosity about love, relationships and sex. “I experienced attraction very young, maybe third or fourth grade. It was often very strong, and I wanted to understand what I was feeling.” The only time he caught a glimpse of these things was in Bollywood movies. But living […]

A limited introduction to the world of Fetishes, and what you may misunderstand.

There’s something about the word itself that makes us recoil- fetish. In our society, it’s difficult as is to talk about sex openly. If at all we must discuss our proclivities, they have to fall in line with the mainstream narrative of sex, which is to say, a heterosexual, penetrative, and otherwise unremarkable type of […]