So what’s the deal with virtual sex?

Is it any fun? Should you be doing it? Why, why not? DICLAIMER: Please be safe online, don’t engage in virtual sex unless you are 18+, and remember that consent is as important online as it is in person. Be safe and have fun! Virtual sex or Cyber sex has been around for as long […]
Complaint is a longing for connection

A client of mine once shared his marriage travails with me: When I change the TV Serial channel to some other channel, my wife fights with me. Having complaints about each other in a relationship is normal. The problem arises when you have the same complaint over and over again for your partner. A lingering […]
Building The Emotional Bank Account Of Your Relationship

Most of us work to live our cherished dreams of having our own house, buying our favoritefood, funding the studies of our kids, and other essentials of livelihood. Tracking our physicalneeds is a relatively easier task. But most of us are clueless when it comes to finding“fulfillment” in our intimate relationships. Yes, with that ‘one’ […]
3 Subtle Signs of Unhealthy Relationships

We all want love. We all long for love. Love is at the core of everything we do if we think about it. But despite being a universally practiced and felt emotion, love has not been talked about in the real sense. Barring the artificially curated social media posts and what we see on TV, […]
4 Tips for Solving Couple Conflicts

How many times have we fought in our intimate relationships with our partners? Definitely more than a few times. Conflict in itself is not unhealthy, as it allows us to look at the areas of the relationship that needs the most attention. A conflict about your partner not helping in housework highlights the feeling of […]
Principles for Handling Couple Misunderstandings

Misunderstandings are a common occurrence in most relationships, and my own love life is no different. When I look around, I see that fights often erupt because of different or mismatching perspectives of looking at the same issue. Yes, these are some of the commonly heard grievances that couples voice out against each other. “I […]
Sexual Confidence: How To Find Yours?

I wonder if there is any other topic than sex that is surrounded by so many complicated and mixed notions. It can be as simple as an erotic act and as complex as our deep-set desires and beliefs. In a world where sex is either served wrapped in toxic messages such as it is sinful […]
Low Sex-Drive? This Could Be Why
Late-night google searches about what could be behind a low-libido or a sudden dip in sexual appetite brings up the usual suspects: medication, stress, depression, hormonal fluctuations, poor diet and exercise and lack of sleep. Now these lifestyle factors can definitely have a huge impact on your sex life, but the truth is, a loss […]
Make Space for Both Your Personalities in Your Relationship
In the initial stages of a relationship, your partner’s differences may feel refreshing and exciting. But over time, these differences can clash and build resentment. Are you in a situation where you love your partner but find it difficult to accommodate both of your personalities in your relationship? In this article, I’m going to tell […]