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What Do You Do When You Can’t Remember the Last Time You Got Intimate With Your Partner?

Join the live 3-hour workshop to discover why a good relationship doesn’t automatically make for good sex, what’s really going on, and how you can rebuild your sexual connection.

A workshop rooted in Conscious Intimacy Model – the powerful approach to couple sexuality created by Pallavi Barnwal, India’s leading intimacy coach, that has helped 1000s of couples rekindle the SPARK and Passion in their bedroom and rebuild their lost intimate connection.

Join my live 3-hour workshop to discover why a good relationship doesn’t automatically make for good sex, what’s really going on, and how you can begin to rebuild your sexual connection.

The elephant in the bedroom | SEX

The One Thing You Know for Sure Is You’re Not Talking About with Your Partner

You love your partner. That part has never been in question. What you can’t work out – the part you’ve been desperately trying to figure out for the longest time – is why the sexual intimacy is dead? You somehow spend the day in good spirit. But night is when it falls all over you, when you cannot caress, kiss, rub, or romance with your partner.

Perhaps your partner never initiate intimacy anymore – and when you initiate sex, you’re left feeling like they see the whole thing as unnecessary. Most sexless, high desire partners I meet quip “my partner says everything is great in our relationship. SEX is just a small piece. Why you are making a big deal about it?”. So you’re left wondering: Am I wrong in desiring sex?

Or maybe you’re the one who flinches when your partner tries to touch you in an intimate way. It’s you lying awake spending sleepless nights, stressful days: My partner is unhappy with lack of intimacy in our relationship. What if I’m broken? What if I am the problem?

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone.

Like you, millions of couples are caught in this same deadlock… all wondering what is the reason behind our sexless marriage, how to fix it, and knowing one thing for certain: none of us are talking about it.

Which is why we’re bringing you the support you need to address this INTIMATE GAP in your fulfilling relationship. In this live workshop with Pallavi Barnwal, Certified Intimacy Coach.  In this 3-hour exploration, you’ll get to the heart of what’s going on between you – and the steps you can make to strengthen your sexual connection.

How Can Two People Who Are So Good Together Struggle to Connect in the Bedroom?

As long as you stay locked in the “whose fault is it?” loop, you’ll never get to the root of the issue.
This is what so many of couples get it wrong. The date nights, libido supplements, the hot passionate marriage tips and tricks we try – these are surface-level “fixes” that don’t work on the root cause. This live masterclass gets to the heart of it.
Because when sex FADES from a loving relationship, the cause is not hormones, a missing libido, or attraction that’s faded. Nothing is necessarily wrong with either of you at all.

The cause is the MODEL OF SEX

You each walked into this relationship carrying a story about sex – what it should look like, how often, how desire looks like, what intimate pleasure is like, what it means if sexual intimacy fades away – learned long before you ever met.

When you uncover what those stories are, and how they interact with each other, you finally have something you can work on.

And that work starts on OCTOBER 24th

The Roadmap to Fulfilling Sexual Connection Has 3 Steps

step 1

See the Pattern

You’ll learn the LOOP you’re caught in – one pursuing, one withdrawing – and the suppressed old burdens you’re carrying that lie behind it. Once you know what’s going on, you know the moves to invite change.

step 2

Enliven the Desire

Desire isn’t a switch that suddenly turns on and off – it’s more like a muscle that fades when it goes unused, and it can be rebuilt. Like a muscle you can strengthen your weak sexual desire on your own, nothing needed from your partner.

step 3

Start the Conversation

You’ll turn years of silence into a tender vulnerable moment “Let’s talk about this…” backed by the real strength that you will gain from this masterclass – and learn how to invite your partner along with you, so you can finally talk about the topic without it ending in arguments or shut downs.

What You’ll Learn

The two roles couples fall into when sex fades

Which one you’re playing, which one your partner is, and the underlying fear driving each – so you can stop taking the pattern personally.

Why every “no” cuts so deep

The personal meaning you attach to every “no” you receive from your partner. How to heal from rejection. How to tell your partner it is not the rejection and move beyond the YES/ NO stance in intimacy, exploring many other possibilities.

Where your story about sex was written

The beliefs you absorbed about SEX long before your relationship about what sex should be and how one should want it – and whose rules you’ve been following in bed.

How to rekindle desire

Why desire is something you can rebuild rather than a spark you wait for – starting with a private exercise you can do without telling anyone.

How to bring it up without it becoming a fight

The gentle way to open the most avoided conversation in your relationship right now – even if every past attempt went badly!

Here's Everything You Get When You Join

The LIVE 3-hour workshop with Pallavi Barnwal

Wednesday, OCTOBER , 12–3 PM ET.

Live Q&A

Ask Pallavi for advice about your situation in a supportive group of people who get it.

Lifetime access to the recording

Watch whenever you’re ready – or share it with your partner when the moment is right.

The Pleasure Journal exercise

Guidance on how to keep a private journal to help you rebuild your own desire, at your own pace.

A conversation starter kit RDBSMA for couple that eases the difficult talk

The right questions that invite deeper trust, surrender, and connection with each other.

This LIVE ONLINE MASTERCLASS Is for You If…

Whether you’re married or in relationship, three years together or thirty, attending as a couple or entirely on your own, this workshop will help you take the first steps towards building the fulfilling sexual connection you deserve in your life and relationship.

“Most couples only talk about sex when something’s wrong…and honestly, that’s way too late.

By then the pressure is high, emotions are tight, and everyone’s nervous system is already bracing.”

— JACQUELLINE HELLYER, Sex therapist

About Pallavi Barnwal

Pallavi Barnwal is India’s leading intimacy coach and a pioneer in bringing adult intimacy pleasure education to people’s lives and bedrooms. She is a RLT Certified coach and has acquired her sexuality training certifications from ISTI (Integrated Sex Therapy Institute) and Rivka Sidorsky & Associates, Sex Therapist based in Maryland, US. She has 10+ years of sexuality coaching experience guiding couples and singles towards healthier sex lives. Her methodology Conscious Intimacy is unique as it blends ancient wisdom of Tantra + Modern Sex Therapy Insights and tools, helping people transform their relationship to sex – both within themselves and with their partner.

"If you’re ready to get better at talking about sex (without the awkwardness or pressure), my LIVE online class Sexual Reconnection will guide you step by step.

Let talking about sex bring you closer — not shut you down."

Frequently Asked Questions

When is the workshop, and how do I join?
The workshop takes place live on Saturday, October 24, 2026, 10 AM to 1 PM IST. After you register, you’ll receive an email with your link to join (and access to your private learning platform where the recording will be uploaded).
Yes, and this challenge is faced by many people like you. Our workshop is designed for that. Everything Pallavi teaches starts with side of the problem. All couple sexual problems are team problems, you and your partner is a team and you both play a role in the problem you are in. Understanding your part of the problem and fixing that will lead to a positive spillover affect on your partner and change in status quo.
Here’s the honest answer: no one can promise you that, and you should be wary of anyone who does. What I can promise is that you’ll leave understanding the real cause behind sexual distance in your relationship, with a solid path to rebuild your own desire, accurate communication, and one concrete, simple step toward inviting your partner along with you. And if you need more support following the workshop, you can reach out to any of our Sexpers via Book my Consult link.
We understand that, and while attending live will give you the benefit to ask Pallavi live. In case you still cannot, you’ll get lifetime access to the full recording, and resources –within 3 days of the live event. 
Yes. It will. Most therapists are unaware of how to broach the subject of sex with their couple clients and what to do if the client brings this up. How to navigate the awkward, silenced, and volatile topic of sexuality in a relationship with your clients. You will learn useful insights around that. However this is a personal workshop rather than clinical training and hence please keep this in mind.

You can reach out to our support team at support@getintimacy.com

Ready to Find Your Way Back to a Deeper Intimate Connection with Your Partner

– Without Pressure or Blame?

Join the live workshop with Pallavi Barnwal, Certified RLT Coach